Monday, November 24, 2008

Thanksgiving! Family! Friends! Too much food! Awesome-ness!




I've been looking forward to this week for what feels like a very long time. We have 50, yes, you heard it, 50 relatives coming into town this week. Brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins coming from all corners of the country to have one big hoorah of gluttonous eating. What could be better?




Soi sad I will have no pictures to remember the occation.




This brings me to my next point, I STILL dont have a camera!!! For someone as picture-happy as I this has been a serious test in my self control. I have been so tempted to go buy one, I miss taking millions of useless pictures of Ryder, my friends, my family, and total strangers who look funny on the street. But none the less I have resisted in hopes of the killer deal I will find the day after Thanksgiving (thanks to the suggestion of my money-savy BFF Melissa).




With that day just a short 4 days from now I am getting all giddy at the thought of my new camera. My photo addiction will soon be fed.




Saturday, November 22, 2008

Good Nutrition

Me: Ryder what would you like for dinner tonight?

Ryder: Hmm, COOKIES!

Me: No, not for dinner, baby. What do you want for dinner?

Ryder: Ice Cream!

Me: Ice cream is a dessert, silly. What about dinner?

Ryder: Cake!

Me: No, sweety. Not for dinner. What do you want for dinner? Spaghetti? Taco's? Chicken?

Ryder: Hmm, COOKIES!

Such a sweet tooth...I have no idea where he gets it from!

Sunday, November 16, 2008

Ryder is really really ridiculously good looking.

With all the craziness that my insane life is I have really slacked on getting Ryders 2 year old pictures done. Yeah, that's right his birthday was 3 months ago. But I think these pictures were worth the wait. My great friend Bart took them for me. I cant tell him thank you enough for the amazing job he did on these pictures of my sweet boy who is growing up way too fast.


Saturday, November 8, 2008

Hey you! Crazy! Get your facts straight...

I am deeply saddened by all the violence and hatred that is being shown to the church that I so dearly love. As we are all aware prop 8 passed last Tuesday. Since it's passing I have heard story after story of acts of hate and vandalism that have taken place by "No on prop 8ers". They are viciously attacking the LDS church as if , in their minds, it was all the churches "fault" prop 8 passed.

Last week a commercial aired on TV that showed two LDS missionaries rip wedding rings of the hands of a lesbian couple, ransack their house and tear up their marriage certificate. I'm sorry, but anyone with half a brain cell, LDS or not, should know that could not be further from the truth. Next, hundreds gather outside a LDS temple screaming "bigot" and other hateful things to members as they enter. Yesterday, the leader of a group looking to over turn Prop. 8 said for every 5.00 donated a hateful and graphic post card would be sent to the profit of the LDS church. Really, the list of things go on, I'm not going to name them all. But I will say, the thing that hit closest to home was yesterday when I heard the church building on the corner of Hazel and Cherry Ave., that I grew up in, was vandalized. The whole building, signs and even the sidewalk surrounding was spray painted on.

These "No on prop 8ers" claim that the passing of prop 8 was hateful and discriminatory, but is this not how they are treating the LDS church now? They are trying to fight what they call "hate" with hate? Hmmm, brilliant guys!

Please folks before you go around acting like a blubbering buffoon get the facts.

The Facts:

1. Mormons make up less than 2% of the population of California. There are approximately 800,000 LDS out of a total population of approximately 34 million.

2. Mormon voters were less than 5% of the yes vote. If one estimates that 250,000 LDS are registered voters (the rest being children), then LDS voters made up 4.6% of the Yes vote and 2.4% of the total Proposition 8 vote.

3. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Mormons) donated no money to the Yes on 8 campaign. Individual members of the Church were encouraged to support the Yes on 8 efforts and, exercising their constitutional right to free speech, donated whatever they felt like donating.

4. The No on 8 campaign raised more money than the Yes on 8 campaign. Unofficial estimates put No on 8 at $38 million and Yes on 8 at $32 million, making it the most expensive non-presidential election in the country.

5. Advertising messages for the Yes on 8 campaign are based on case law and real-life situations. The No on 8 supporters have insisted that the Yes on 8 messaging is based on lies. Every Yes on 8 claim is supported.

6. The majority of our friends and neighbors voted Yes on 8. Los Angeles County voted in favor of Yes on 8. Ventura County voted in favor of Yes on 8.

7. African Americans overwhelmingly supported Yes on 8. Exit polls show that 70% of Black voters chose Yes on 8. This was interesting because the majority of these voters voted for President-elect Obama. No on 8 supporters had assumed that Obama voters would vote No on 8.

8. The majority of Latino voters voted Yes on 8. Exit polls show that the majority of Latinos supported Yes on 8 and cited religious beliefs (assumed to be primarily Catholic).

9. The Yes on 8 coalition was a broad spectrum of religious organizations. Catholics, Evangelicals, Protestants, Orthodox Jews, Muslims - all supported Yes on 8. It is estimated that there are 10 million Catholics and 10 million Protestants in California. Mormons were a tiny fraction of the population represented by Yes on 8 coalition members.

10. Not all Mormons voted in favor of Proposition 8. Our faith accords that each person be allowed to choose for him or her self. Church leaders have asked members to treat other members with "civility, respect and love," despite their differing views.

11. The Church did not violate the principal of separation of church and state. This principle is derived from the First Amendment to the United States Constitution, which reads, "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof . . ." The phrase "separation of church and state", which does not appear in the Constitution itself, is generally traced to an 1802 letter by Thomas Jefferson, although it has since been quoted in several opinions handed down by the United States Supreme Court in recent years. The LDS Church is under no obligation to refrain from participating in the political process, to the extent permitted by law. U.S. election law is very clear that Churches may not endorse candidates, but may support issues. The Church has always been very careful on this matter and occasionally (not often) chooses to support causes that it feels to be of a moral nature.

12. Supporters of Proposition 8 did exactly what the Constitution provides for all citizens: they exercised their First Amendment rights to speak out on an issue that concerned them, make contributions to a cause that they support, and then vote in the regular electoral process. For the most part, this seems to have been done in an open, fair, and civil way. Opponents of 8 have accused supporters of being bigots, liars, and worse. The fact is, we simply did what Americans do - we spoke up, we campaigned, and we voted.

I sincerely hope that these people that are acting out in such a lewd, childish way can gain some common sense and some respect for their fellow Americans and the great country that we live in, where we have the honor and blessing of a democracy in which the people get to have a say. We are Americans and have a right to vote on propositions. What a blessing. Lets stop the hate.

Friday, November 7, 2008

Ryder and I had another one of our super-awesome date nights tonight. We met up with Kim, her son Tyler, Deke and Dekes brother Dyston. We went to dinner at Maui Taco then had the pleasure of see Madagascar opening night.




We arrived at the theater about 35 minutes early thinking we were bring smart The movie was completely sold out.


Monday, November 3, 2008

Halloween Fun

This year for Halloween Ryder was (*sniff*sniff*) with his dad. I missed him horribly!!! But Ryder seemed to have lots of fun. Joshes fiance (who I LOVE by the way!!!) made Ryder the most adorable little Robot costume. Kenzie (joshes fiance) was kind enough to send me a picture of my little guy before all the candy madness began. She also said she would send me a video clip from trick-or-treating. Once I get that I'll be sure to post it for your viewing pleasure!

Robo-Ryder with daddy




All week Ryder and I talked about Halloween and trick-or-treating. He practiced saying trick-or-treat a bunch, and from what I hear, the kid made out like a bandit with enough candy for a small country. Good thing, the kids got a serious sweet tooth! ...No idea where he got that from! ;)


As you all know, I'm not really the sittin around the house kinda girl so to get my mind off the crazy amounts of missin' that were goin on for Ryder I went out with my friends for dinner at Spag-Fag (Spaghetti Factory) then to a very fun Halloween party!


Kimmi and me all dolled up!


Putting on WAY too much make-up!

Flapper Sara


Noelle and me


In the car



Kim-Kim, Ian, ME, and Jon



Strangely, Ian's not making a funny face in this picture...this is just how he normally looks! ;)



I dont know why I always make this face in pictures...



Pimpin'



Great Friends!!! I love Kim!



Dancing the night away.


Happy Halloween!!!

This year for Halloween Ryder was (*sniff*sniff*) with his dad. I missed him horribly!!! But Ryder seemed to have lots of fun. Joshes fiance (who I LOVE by the way!!!) made Ryder the most adorable little Robot costume. Kenzie (joshes fiance) was kind enough to send me a picture

Fellas, grab a pen and take notes...

Lately it seems like I have been doing lots of talking about what girls want. Or, rather, what I want. Guys ask, I tell. Last weekend I had dinner with a few guy friends, two of which are suffering heart aches from recent break ups and they wanted to know, even with brutal honesty (they know I'd give it) what it is that girls are looking for. Likewise, on Sunday I drove my good friend Mike home after church and we had a very in depth, somewhat one sided-thanks to my big blabber mouth-conversation about what it is that I am looking for in a boy...I mean MAN.

Some say I'm picky. Some say I am afraid of commitment. But whats really wrong with being picky? There are a lot of young LDS guys in this area. Why should I settle on one before seeing what else there may be. I've been married before. I know what its all about. And with that knowledge I know what I need...and more importantly, what I DON'T want.

So, fella's, grab a pen, I'm givin you pearls here.

10 things worth-while girls are looking for.

1: Emotional Stability: Girls are looking for someone they can rely on. If I have a problem I need to know I can turn to the person I'm with for strength. I need to be able to rely on him. I need to be able to openly talk to him with out worrying that he will cut me down or get mad for no reason. We want a partner to help us face life's problems. We also want someone who is decisive and can make a decision.

2: Career/Financial Stability: THIS DOES NOT MEAN A GUY NEEDS TO BE RICH! What this does mean is a girl wants to know that she can depend on you to work to help support your family. Have the ability to get and keep a job.

3. Selflessness: Be a giver, not a taker. Personally, for me, I put everything into my relationships and the person I am with takes priority over me in every way. Because of that I feel that in order to have balance in the relationship I need someone who puts me first over himself. I put him first-he puts me first. See, we both win!

4. Say Sorry!: I have met an awful lot of guys who have such a hard time saying sorry. Why is this?? None of us are perfect! So, when your less perfect side comes out and you make a mistake, say sorry for it. Nobody will think less of you, nobody will think you are a push over. In fact, just the opposite, you will gain a whole lotta respect for it and your relationship[ will be made that much stronger. Even if you dont necessarily think you're wrong, say sorry. Sorry can mean, I'm sorry you're hurt, I'm sorry we disagreed, I'm sorry you dont understand.... Say sorry!!!

5. Be positive: Nobody wants to be around a Debbie-Downer... so smile and see the bright side please.

6. Work hard. One thing that I have learned I can not do with out is a good work ethic. Work hard at what you do. Be the best you can be at it. Set your goals high and work till you reach them. You'll have more confidence in yourself as you work harder.

7. Have fun!!! There is a time for work and there is a time for play. I like to work hard and play hard and surround myself with those that do the same. So, have fun and dont forget to laugh at yourself once in a while!

8. Take pride in your appearance. Not being shallow, but physical attraction matters. If I wanna throw up when I look at you because you haven't bathed or brushed your teeth in a week and there is a lingering cheese smell when you're around I dont care how nice you are it will just never work.

9. Be sensitive but not overly sensitive. Show a little sensitivity in what comes out of your mouth and how you treat those around you but dont be overly sensitive to what others say to you. This is also good advise for girls!

10. And last but certainly not least, Just say NO. To video games, porn, drugs, hooker lookin girls who wanna text you even though you have a girlfriend, and sleeping all day in lieu of getting a job.

So, there ya have it, throw the video games out the window, getta job and brush those pearly whites. Mrs. Right is out there somewhere!